Realizations~Dateable Rule #3

After my chill time with my boyfriend and friends last week and this weekend, I wanted to put some truths down that I've realized:

1. Though I want to take care of everyone and everything, I have to take care of myself and my body first. My sickness is a consequence of my careless actions.

2. My dream man does new stuff with me, soul-searching stuff! But life isn't a dream and I can't always get what I want. My relationship with Luis is happy, healthy, and honest, and that's all I really need. I can go to church alone, or eat weird foods with my other friends. I don't have to do everything with him!

3. I'm so much more attractive when I'm truly happy. Girls are prettier/sexier/more awesome to be around when they're happy! "Dateable girls aren’t downers, they love life!"

I need to talk about my week!

Ohmygosh guys! I spent this entire awesome week with my boyfriend at his place! I love hanging out with him and eating all his food (beans and chorizo and cheese) and just laying on his comfy stomach. There has been so weird stuff going on between my parents and I lately, mostly due to my boyfriend and the fact that he doesn't work, so spending time over at my boyfriend's has been helping a lot!  I love that man so so so much. I'm so excited to be with him! 
I'm off to my sister's graduation now, I'm so excited! Have a great day:)
Danielle

Of Monsters And Men - King And Lionheart

Hanging with my boys!

I need more pictures of my boyfriend! hehe he has the cutest fat chihuahua named Mambo...I love them both so much!

Love and Other Delusions: Dateable Rule #2

Happy Wednesday/Thursday! I started this on Wednesday so I think it counts as two days. I have another Dateable Rule for you guys to analyze today!
Rule #2: Tell it like it is. "The dateable girl...doesn’t imagine things to be more than they are." 


This breaks my romantic heart. Every boy I've fallen for, I've dreamed of marrying him. Most of the time it's just me musings, but sometimes (especially with this guy I'm dating, ohmygosh) I let my imagination go too far. I have to just stop thinking, breathe a little bit, and remind myself that this could end at any time and I might not marry the guy. Once I think some sense into myself I feel a little bad (I really love him!), but also thankful that I don't give into my delusions that much (Carrie Bradshaw comes to mind). In summary, imagination = good! Lying to yourself about your relationship/future relationship = bad.


Think about it!
Danielle